5 types of women fall in love easily, you care more about each other
Many female friends know that even in love, they will know that their youth is short-lived, and women cannot afford tossing for years.
Therefore, please don’t spend your time on inconclusive love. If you are stuck in the following relationships, it is recommended that you still resume “cliff and horse”, so as not to waste your youth and not get good results.
First, you care more about the other party. You are in love, but you are not sure what the other party thinks; you think you are suitable, he seems to disagree; when he is away, you miss him, and he does not seem to differ when you are away.
“If two people disagree, how can they go together?
“Sometimes one side loves the other vertical. If it is in a healthy relationship, there will be an alternating phenomenon. The two will take turns to play the role of pursuit and being pursued; but if one of them always plays the pursuit, suchThe relationship is not perfect. For a long time, if you fall into thirst, you will feel controlled by the other party, you will feel angry, deceived, and painful.
Second, you want to help each other Do you often feel that the other is poor?
Do you feel it is your responsibility to help the other person cheer up?
Are you afraid that if you leave the other party, he will not be able to take the blow?
If so, you’re probably a “savior.”
“Salvation” will not find a suitable person, or a person whom he sympathizes with and can help.
Find someone who has been traumatized, vulnerable, dependent, unloved, and aggrieved. You are loved by pity. He pointed out that you are grateful. This feeling is like a rescue task, not a healthy, balanced one.
The key to keep in mind here is “respect”. The person you love must be someone you can respect. You must be proud of the other person. Your partner does not want your rescue, and even wants you to really understand him.
Third, what you love is the potential of the other person. What you love is the potential of the other person, not what the other person really looks like. What you love is what the other person may look like in the future. Then he is not your partner or even the object of your transformation.
Every time we do pre-marriage counselling, if the other party will not change for 50 years, will you be satisfied?
If you have always wanted to be able to change each other and you feel more satisfied, it is not love, but crumbs, and the happiness of both parties is used as a bet.
When you associate with a person, you must love and respect each other’s true nature, not his future appearance. You can expect him to continue to grow, but you must be satisfied with his current appearance.
Fourth, regard each other as the object of worship. Young female stars fall in love with directors, college students fall in love with professors, secretaries fall in love with bosses . It is difficult to maintain normal feelings about falling in love with the worshipped objects, because the two cannot be equal.treat.
Both men and women must be treated equally. I don’t mean a part, otherwise the attitude should not overly worship each other.
People who fall in love with the person they admire often have low self-confidence and feel bad about themselves.
Fifth, choose this object for rebellion. Parents always point out to you. Find a rich object. Every boyfriend is poor. You have been disciplined by your parents since childhood. Every girlfriend is very casual.; Since my childhood father gave his life, passing incense is the most important thing, but your girlfriend is either unable or unwilling to give birth . If you replace the object, always make your parents angry, it is likely that you just want to rebel, you think it must beTo prove what comes back, when you can’t control your choice, you don’t really love each other, this relationship is doomed to no effect.
Six, you’re just attracted to each other’s appearance, everyone will do this, right?
If you find yourself deeply attracted by one of your opponent ‘s traits, ask yourself, if the other party does n’t have those big blue eyes, magnetic sounds . If the other party is not a model, he wo n’t play basketball . I will followIs he (she) together?
Man’s appearance is the first strength?
Seven, a chance to get along shortly, you share some work with the other side, often have to work overtime together, so you feel in love with the other side . you go on vacation for three weeks, met a man who is also on vacation, you feel like falling in love… A short day and night together means that you are together in special circumstances, not a regular one. This kind of relationship cannot last, because a short day and night together cannot make you fully understand each other’s personality.
Eight, the other party is not free. I leave this to the end because it is not a relationship at all.
The first reason to choose a life partner is because the other person is “free”.
“Freedom” means people who can associate with you freely, without marriage, without engagement, without a fixed partner, without going to bed with others, single, and only with you.
If the man you fall in love promises to break up with another woman earlier; or he says he doesn’t love that woman, he loves you; or his original object accepts your existence, they don’t plan to break up, but he wants to break up withYou’ve been together for a while; or he just broke up, but he might break through the mirror . these are not free.
Don’t associate with married or targeted people, no matter what the excuse, the result is the same, you are destined to be heartbroken.
Don’t forget, you just accepted the leftover from another person.
Through the above sharing, I hope to bring help to the love of female friends.